May this be a year unlike any other. May you dare yourself beyond what you presume your limitations are, may you embrace who you are and what you are able to do. May you do it all, no matter the fear, and do it well. Let go of whatever else you have said and believed […]
Would you believe me if I said the moments of being guilt-free since giving birth to my son in September 2015 have been few if at all. I am a constant ball of anxiety and panic and guilt because, like most people who would admit it and own it, I didn’t plan for my kids. […]
My darling daughter. So much of life goes unsaid, and I hope to never leave you in doubt about a number of things. However on this your first birthday here are some lessons I want to share with you hoping you would not only regard them but that you would practice them. TREAT PEOPLE WELL […]
I WAS not expecting it when it happened. I kept blaming it on the fact that for the first time in my working career I didn’t take a break over the Christmas season, so it must have been the weight of the entire year that was weighing me down. Had to be.
MYTH IN my culture has it that if you look beautiful and radiant while carrying, then it is definitely a girl and if all the other awful pregnancy side-effects catch up with you then you are carrying a boy. I reject that, I mean what are we trying to say here about boys?